Thursday, May 28, 2009

TV and ADD


The six year old dumps out the Tinkertoys and stares at them. He doesn’t have the slightest idea what to do with them. For Christmas, a seven year old girl is given Lincoln Logs. She is mildly curious at first. She briefly tries putting them together and then quits. “It’s too hard.” In an unfocused way, she wanders into the bedroom, turns on the TV and watches a Disney video.
Out on the front line, our schools literally reel as across America, hundreds of thousands, if not millions, of kids are diagnosed with Attention Deficit Disorder (ADD). It is a diagnosis that has reached epidemic proportions. All across the land, parents seek answers to help them understand their learning disabled or ADD children.

What is this epidemic of ADD? How is it defined? Briefly, the children’s thinking easily fragments. It is hard for them to focus and carry through a task. Their attention wanders. Often the children are impulsive and have behavior problems. It does not seem to be a problem borne of poor parenting, for high achieving; loving and responsive parents have children who are part of the epidemic. There is a good indication that aspects of ADD are genetic. The father or mother may have had similar problems when they were younger. But genetic disorders are never epidemic in nature.

First, it is important to see how the definition of ADD has changed with time. Twenty-five years ago, ADD was seen as a true disorder of attention. That is, it was noted that children’s attention fragmented easily and they could not pay attention to television shows. This is no longer true. ADD children can pay attention to TV and are able to play video games. As a matter of fact, far from not being able to attend television, the playing of video games or watching TV is often used in the primary grades as a reinforce or reward for behaviorally disturbed and learning disturbed children. Video tapes are used as a teaching tool across the primary and elementary grade spectrum with increasing frequency.

ADD could more correctly be labeled an intention disorder. That is, the children fragment when they should be intending to do something – to accomplish a goal, start or complete a project. In my experience as a child psychiatrist, it appears the majority of children labeled ADD have no problem at all if they are being entertained, playing a video game, or watching TV. The entire problem seems to revolve around getting the job done, whether the job is putting Tinkertoys together, building with Lincoln Logs, focusing on a monopoly game, or completing a school assignment.

CRITICAL PERIODS

It is essential to briefly explore the “critical period” theory. This theory of development holds that there is an optimal time for particular types of learning. It holds that if the environment does not give the essential stimulation at the critical period, the optimal time for learning that concept or method of thinking is irreversibly lost. The theory holds, for instance, that language development should best take place in the second and third years of life. It is not that some people cannot learn a completely foreign language at a later time, but that it is much more difficult at a later time. The longer the environment “deprives” the individual of the critical input, the more difficult it will be to learn the concept or skill later.

To understand the “critical period” theory in relation to the ADD epidemic, the neurologic development of the third and fourth years must be examined. Eric Erickson noted the task of the three to five year old was Initiative and Industry. (Does this like a description of today’s preschooler, kindergartener or even first grade child? It does not!) It is very rare to find small children today that stick with any task, invested in mastery of doing something. Rarely, rarely today will one see a three to five year old working at mastering a task for more than a few minutes. Gone are the day of cutting figures from the Sears and Roebuck catalog and dressing them with tabbed clothes. Gone are the days of having a “market” in the corner of the play room with cans opened from the bottom so the child could sell food to his or her parents. Gone are the days when a toddler would be given a role of masking tape and be encouraged to completely cover a kitchen chair. Gone are most of the Tinkertoys, erector sets, and Lincoln Logs. Gone are the days when a child would be given a cloth and be told to sew on dozens of buttons in the pattern of her choice. Gone too, are the days of helping on household and farm tasks – gathering eggs, milking and quilting. Gone are the days of focus on memorizing , at an early age, psalms, stories and songs.

At an essential time of brain developmental readiness for task mastery, today’s three and four year olds, the children who Erickson characterized as being at the stage of initiative and industry, are watching television and enjoying video tapes.

And therein lies the basic problem. In fact, most of the items for younger children in Toy-R-Us reflect an emphasis on sensory input, and rudimentary motor skills, but rarely encourage creativity, task focus, job completion and mastery. Even if they are offered for sale – Tinkertoys, Legos, Lincoln Logs, and alphabet blocks are not the big sellers. What sells big are the video films and video game: Game Boy, Nintendo, the Little Mermaid and Aladdin. Those are the items that make millions. And of course children are exposed to more child movies than ever before. When parents “do” something with small children now, it rarely involves really “doing” anything. The parent watch TV with children, enjoy the televised game together, go to the movies or may, more rarely, go to the zoo. John Rosemond, M.D., a pediatrician, notes the things a child is not doing when watching TV: Scanning, practicing motor skills, practicing eye-hand coordination, using more than two senses, asking questions exploring, exercising, initiative or motivation, being challenged, solving problems, thinking analytically, exercising imagination, practicing communication skills, being either creative or constructive.

But it is more than that! Today’s parents, who themselves grew up in front of the TV, do not know how to do things with their children. Even if they know of the importance of helping small children with focus and task completion, they, themselves, don’t know how to make a kite or tin-can telephone. They don’t know how to cover chairs with masking tape, they don’t know about the corner grocery where the child sells cans of food opened from the bottom. They don’t know about sewing on buttons with their child or making paper dolls. But most importantly, they know nothing of the developmental necessity of doing something with their preschool aged child. They, themselves, grew up with Big Bird and Sesame Street. And now they go to movies and watch TV as a family. And when their three and four year old child gets bored, they, as good parents, have a library of “good” videos - “Disney” videos- for the child to watch.
Indeed, most “involved” parents today, encouraged by the popular parenting advice are concerned with what their child watches. Parents worry about sex and violence on TV. Most are more concerned with quality than quantity.

A grandfather recently spoke to me after a lecture: “What you say about TV and a lack of internal focus is absolutely true. I have two wonderful granddaughters, one six come and one four. They are active, bright kids. But you know, I noticed, even before hearing you, that after they have watched a morning of video tapes, they come out of the room, sort of floating, spacey, really. They wander aimlessly for awhile. They have a “lost” air about them, and then they come up to me, and they say,” What can I do?” I told their mother that it takes them about one hour to recover from two video tapes. And generally these aren’t spacey kids! They don’t watch that much TV. But think of the poor little kids that watch it day after day!”

Real education is dialog!!! Real education involves a feeling of mastery, ability to respond to situations, to articulate ideas, and respond thoughtfully. Whether we talk about leadership, creativity, responsibility, or motivation, we are describing action. Television encourages passive response. Certainly it encourages absorption, and arguably understanding but it does not, and cannot, by its very nature, encourage doing, mastery, task completion, creativity, independent thinking – all those things associated with being a functioning and productively busy human being. School must, by their nature, focus on doing and task completion.

Recently, a businessman and his wife, fed up with amount of time their elementary age children sat in front of the TV, bet the children $200 apiece that they could not go one year without watching TV in the home. The kids took the parents up on the bet and they won. To the parents amazement, the children asked the parents not to return the TV to the home. The kids had found, over the year, that it was just too much fun to be doing things with their parents and in a self-motivated way. They realized after a year that they had been missing out on something important.

Taking the “critical periods” theory into account, we cannot say that all children who don’t learn to focus, concentrate, and master a task during the third and fourth years are doomed to never learn it. However, I believe strongly that most such children grow under a definite handicap, and it is much more difficult to learn to focus, create, and achieve a sense of mastery later.

By Foster W.Kline, M.D.

Tuesday, May 26, 2009

Storytelling & Imaginative Play



The important of Storytelling & Imaginative play. Remember how peanut butter tasted when you were a kid? Ever wonder why they don’t make it like that any more? Ah--sad to say, it’s made the same; we adults just don’t taste the same. In childhood, taste is intense; vision is intense, smells are overwhelming, and every day is an adventure where all is new, mysterious, awesome and wondrous.

The early child wants to explore the world and play in it all the time. "All I want to do is make things and sing," my seven year old sang out. Making things, including a joyful noise, is a pretty good agenda, wouldn’t you say?

Childhood, when lived fully, prepares for adulthood perfectly. It’s a time of constant learning, and learning takes place through simply being a child, day dreaming, "let’s pretend" play, making things and doing nothing. The toddler sifting sand through fingers is learning--all action is learning; all learning is play and play is re-creation, the foundation of creativity.

The playing child is the imaginative child. He or she can imagine alternatives to a threatening or unfair situation and is far less prone to violence as a solution than the child who can’t play. The child who has no inner world of images to draw on can’t imagine alternatives to his immediate sensory world, and so has no hope of changing things.

Without imagination the child will not be able to grasp abstract issues or subjects later. Unable to see the boat or truck in the matchbox, the child will be unable to "see" alternatives to violence when the going gets rough; he will not be able to "see" with the inner eye what the outer mathematical symbol stands for; he will not be able to “see” a solution unless that solution is presented graphically from without.

So nature’s prime agenda in childhood is to develop imagination--ability to create images not present to the sensory system, and this takes place through storytelling and play. A little girl told me she liked radio so much more than television because the pictures on the radio were more beautiful. Like pictures in stories, the radio pictures were beautiful because they were her own, products of the awesome creative power inside her.

Harvard’s Howard Gardner points out that an infant-child not played with never will learn to play; the child who can’t play and is not told stories doesn’t develop imagination. That child’s childhood only partly unfolds, and their intelligence and well-being are at risk. This means that to help our children we as adults must rediscover play, "let’s pretend," storytelling--and love. Then we can awaken the same in our children.

Finally, the child needs time just to be a child--time to daydream, leave the outer world of corrections and demands and enter the quiet inner world of the heart. From this inner world, the balance with the outer world is found; memory and learning are assured, and the child lives in the natural joy that learning about his wonder-filled world should bring.

written by: Joseph Chilton Pierce (revised and reprinted with permission from the Suncoast Waldorf Association)
Joseph Chilton Pierce is the author of several books and articles on childhood, including the bestselling book Magical Child.

Sunday, May 24, 2009

Be creative in learning



Kids love the idea of treasure hunting and the challenges they go through in obtaining an object. Being a creative parent is not necessarily an easy task with busy schedule through out the day. We can help in giving you an idea for a game which you and your child can do together. This can enhance your child's recognition skills and increase their learning process. You can assist them a long the way and its quite rewarding for you and your child.

All you need is a container, uncooked rice, numbers and alphabets from 10 dollar stores where you can find. Just have your child locate these hidden numbers and alphabets then specify by reading them out loud to you. If you don't want your child to use bare hands you can offer them to use a tong to pick up these objects from the container. Depending on how old your child is do take precaution that they don't swallow the uncooked rice. Try it out and have fun with your child on a rainy Sunday like today.

Saturday, May 23, 2009

Preparation for kindergarten


Gathering information from the school that your child is going to attend is essential. Most Preschool or Kindergarten school have readiness checklist. This list will help prepare your child and foresee how they evaluate your child's skills. Using these guide will help parents better understand what the expectation the school have and how ready your child is before entering the preschool.

  • speak clearly enough to be understood
  • be happy away from home
  • handle all his personal needs, such as going to the bathroom and tying shoes
  • play well with other children, share toys and games, and respect others' property
  • make simple choices
  • express his own needs and wants in an age-appropriate manner
  • follow rules, especially safety rules
  • follow a series of three directions
  • tell the right hand from the left
  • use crayons, paints, paste, and clay appropriately
  • draw rather than scribble
  • tell or retell a story
  • answer questions about a short story
  • listen to a story for at least five minutes
  • work independently for five or more minutes
  • listen to a rhyme and hear similarities and differences
  • recognize similarities and differences in the sizes, shapes, and colors of objects
  • copy simple shapes
  • compare objects by size
  • bounce and catch a ball showing the hand-eye coordination necessary for reading and math
As a parent we can help our child to establish better skill level so that are ready and set for challenges that might come before them before entering a preschool or kindergarten program.

Thursday, May 21, 2009

Checklist for Kindergarten Readiness


Like any parent we are constantly learning new material and information about our child. So you ask when is it the right time for my child to enter a Kindergarten school or preschool program? Believe it or not there is a list that can help in making this decision for your child's educational needs. There is no perfect formula in making such decision but you can use this checklist to assure your child's performance in acquiring the skills below.

  • Listen to stories without interrupting
  • Recognize rhyming sounds
  • Pay attention for short periods of time to adult-directed tasks
  • Understand actions have both causes and effects
  • Cut with scissors
  • Trace basic shapes
  • Begin to share with others
  • Be able to recognize authority
  • Button shirts, pants, coats, and zip up zippers
  • Begin to control oneself
  • Speak understandably
  • Talk in complete sentences of five to six words
  • Look at pictures and then tell stories
  • Identify rhyming words
  • Identify the beginning sound of some words
  • Recognize some common sight words like "stop"
  • Sort similar objects by color, size, and shape
  • Recognize groups of one, two, three, four, and five objects
  • Bounce a ball
  • Count to ten
  • Identify some alphabet letters
  • Show understanding of general time of day
  • Start to follow rules
  • Manage Bathroom needs
  • Separate from parents without being upset

Basically if the child has acquire most of these skills from the checklist and they are at least four years of age they should be ready for kindergarten. If your child shows healthy, mature, capable and eagerness to learn it must mean a degree of readiness. Teachers love to see children who are eager to learn and show responsiveness in the classroom environment.

We hope this topic is helpful for all parents and if other parents have other opinions or advice do drop us any comment. We love to hear from you at Garden House Preschool Blog.
 

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